Business Casual in Boston

Recently I attended a business meeting for my real job in Boston.  I decided to collide my two worlds & bring you a few business casual basics.  I work for the medical device division of Johnson & Johnson, so we are about as conservative as they come.  Despite the conservative nature of my company, I feel it is always important to be yourself, which for me, strictly prohibits sweater sets & panty hoes.  Here is one outfit I wore (& managed to photograph) during the 3 days of meetings and events.  This is an attempt to encourage you to think a bit outside the Banana Republic box with your work duds (nothing wrong with the BR basics, just don't be afraid to add your personal style).

Top- Beyond Vintage / Pants- BCBG / Belt- Steve Madden / Shoes- Marcos Santi via Sole Society / Bracelets- Banana, Bee Charming / Lips- MAC Ruby Woo / Shades- Tom Ford / Watch- Michele

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Similar or Same:  Top / Pants / Belt / Shoes / Lips

And now for a few tips:

Women

Definition.  Casual does not = frumpy, throw some flare into your casual ensemble, maybe a leopard print belt or a bright colored pencil skirt. ("flare" always makes me think of the scene in the movie Office Space when Jennifer Aniston refuses to wear the minimum 13 pieces of flare... Ha! Maybe skip the buttons & "express yourself" with some red patent leather flats).

Coverage.  Skin coverage is good, nothing low cut or too short, but above the knee is OK, it's OK to show your arms, & peep toes are OK (not the case with business attire), but avoid shoes that are too high or strappy.

Accessorize.  There's nothing wrong with a statement jewelry piece, or a bold belt, work can be fun!

Tailor.  Steer clear of the body clinging extremes: skin tight --> baggy.  You can never go wrong with a clean tailored look.

Comfort.  There's nothing worse than tugging at your skirt, fidgeting with your bra straps, or limping around a conference center, so make sure you feel your best in your business casual ensemble.  First impressions are important, if you are comfortable you will be more confident & confidence is the key with any business look.

Denim.  This is a gray area & it really depends on your company.  In general the older & more conservative the company the less likely denim is acceptable.  Check with your HR department or just error on the safe side & skip the denim.  If your company does allow denim as part of it's business casual code, avoid heavily distressed or holey jeans.

Makeup.  In general a nice, natural look is great.  If you are woman in business, awesome, if you are a Mom in business, more power to you, but don't be mistaken for a soccer Mom while at work.  Cover the (inevitable) bags below your eyes, put on a little lid liner, some blush, & dab some gloss on your smile.  Mostly, it all comes down to being yourself.  I am a red lipstick gal (as you are well aware) so I don't shy away from red lipstick at corporate functions.  If you are a chapstick gal, go chapstick, but maybe choose one with a nice tint.  You don't have to look like a man to be successful in a man's world, yet you don't want to look like you are trying to "pick up" the man.

Hair.  Make sure your trim & color are up to date.  Ask your colorist for a natural look whether it be blonde, brunette, or auburn.  The skunk thing is not good for biz nor are the hot pink or feather extensions.   A neat ponytail is perfectly acceptable as is a down do, just make sure you do the do & avoid anything that can be perceived as sloppy.

Men

Avoid.  Golf shirts & shorts are not my fave.  It is "business casual," not "resort casual" so stick with slacks & a long sleeve button down even if you DO conduct your business on a golf course.  If you are actually golfing, golf attire is appropriate, of course.

Match.  Match your leathers.  Make sure your pants & shirt compliment.

Shave.  If you sport tasteful facial hair just make sure it is kept.

Press.  Have the hotel press your shirt if you don't want to do so yourself, but a crinkled up 'I've-been-at-the-bottom-of-a-suitcase-for-3-layovers' shirt is no good.  One of my Dad's best friends & long time road warrior had his dry cleaner individually hang each shirt in plastic.  He then folded each shirt in the plastic & neatly packed it in his suitcase.  He swears & declares it is the best way to keep a pressed shirt pressed & he would be one to listen to!

Be Yourself.  If lavender shirts & pin-stripped pants are your bag, go for it, if you are blue shirt navy blazer guy, go for it.

Makeup.  Unless you are a news anchor, I don't recommend makeup (that was to make sure you are paying attention).

Sportcoat.  Optional for business casual attire.

Tie.  Business casual means no tie, so enjoy it & leave the tie at home.  If you are giving a presentation a blazer is appropriate, but you can still skip the tie.  It is certainly better to be overdressed than underdressed, but a tie in a business casual environment sends the message that you are either stuffy or you take yourself a bit too seriously.  Stick with the attire that is requested.

I would certainly not declare myself the Emily Post of business dress code, but I have been a participant & observer of corporate duds for the past 12+ years.  So go climb that ladder and don't be afraid to do so ever so stylishly!

Stylishly yours,
DKG

The Mr: Must Haves & Must Nots

OK gentlemen, light your cigar, pour your snifter of brandy & sit back & listen to the DKGstyle "Must Haves & Must Nots," menswear edition.   Ladies, think of me as your messenger. We all know that this message has been repeated countless times by you, but as your 3rd party "expert" (take that loosely) perhaps this time it may stick. Now don't get me wrong, I am much more prepared, & passionate about womenswear, however, I do have a husband & I have pretty much dressed him since we met in 2001. So here are the basic rules (and if you know Frank, you know that left to his own devices he often breaks the rules):

Top 10 "Must Haves"
1. Designer (or at least nice) jeans
Sorry, I know you'd rather spend the cash on golf clubs or beer or fishing rods, but this is a menswear must.  Just buy 1-pair for goodness sake, they should last you a couple of years, then when you wear them out, buy 1 more.
2. Shoes (obvious, I know, but a few basics) 
A pair or two of each, depending on your lifestyle:  dress, casual, exercise, flops.  You can keep that 1 pair from high school that you can't give up but please don't wear them outside of your home.
3. Red tie  
Red means power!  Wear this on interviews, business presentations, or for times when you want to feel like the man in charge (but please spare the gal & don't wear it on a first date).
4. Belts
One or two (if you want different colors) of each:  dress, casual.  Match your shoe & belt leathers, black & black, brown & brown.
5. Some sweet shades
My first inclination was to insist on a pair of designer shades, but I am going to step down & let you choose between designer or sporty shades like Smith or VonZipper or if you want to be really cutting edge & charitable, Toms just came out with some sweet shades.
6. Clean white shirt
This means no stains & in relatively new condition.  Depending on your job, your style, & where you live this can range from a t-shirt to a button down w/french cuffs.  Paired with the designer jeans above, & matching leathers, this is one of my favorite, timeless looks for men.  I personally like the t-shirt option on my husband w/ nice jeans & the footwear of his choice (which means flops).
7. Blazer  
This is a lifelong staple, use your style & personality to compliment your wardrobe.
8. Outer coat
Depending on the climate & your occupation I would suggest 1 of each dress & casual, but you might be able to get away with one somewhere in the middle.
9.  Cologne
This is a hard one & you will definitely need some help from the nice lady at the counter or your wife or a girlfriend.  Find a signature cologne that suits you & apply (very subtly) for evenings out.  Less is more!
10. Bag or Brief
Something that suits your style & your lifestyle.  Have fun with this one.

Now that wasn't so bad, right?!  You probably have almost all of these in your wardrobe already.  If you are lacking an item or two (hopefully not the "shoes" item... if so this may not be the blog for you), I have put together a few menswear "looks" based on what I think 3 of my best guy friends (one being my husband, of course) would do with my list above.  I hope you enjoy & get a few ideas for yourself!


Ridgway is one of those modern day Renaissance guys, who every gal wants as a BFF.  He loves the arts, is incredibly athletic, & always has something interesting or inspiring to say.  He has great taste, so I hope I did him justice here.

Jim is married to my fabulous friend Judith, whom I've mentioned in posts-past.  Jim is from NYC (jealous!) & is very city chic.  He is a road warrior for work which takes him to cosmopolitan places on a daily basis.  He is a foodie, an art lover, & an athlete.

Lastly, my hubby, Frank.  Frank has worked in the finance world (ie. stock market) his whole career.  His occupation dictates a more formal look by day, but is a laid-back casual guy by night.  He is a stock market extraordinaire, an avid golfer, one who loves food, wine & friends, & just an all around fantastic guy (I am one lucky lady)!

Lastly, a few "Must Nots."  I will admit that "Must Nots" sounds a bit extreme, but I couldn't resist the play on words, so consider these friendly tips & reminders.

"Must Nots" & Maintenance

-Phase out pleats.  Don't go throw away every pair of pants you own, just commit to bringing in flat fronts as you buy new pants/shorts/suits.

-Holey socks, shirts, underwear... toss 'em!

-Keep the baseball hat wearing to a minimum unless you are attending a game or a beer fest in the park

-Maintain the mane.  If you can pull off a longer haired look, just keep it tidy, & remember, neck hair is never appealing no matter how long your locks may be.

-Tanning:  I'm not a huge fan of the super tan man, to me it just screams "higher maintenance than me," but this is probably a bit judgemental on my part, so just run your tanning plans by your lady friend & look for facial expressions as your cue rather than "sure, a spray tan sounds super" (as she turns & plunges her finger into her mouth).

Stylishly yours,
DKG